The ‘Busy’ Trap (and my dirty little secret)

"You’re so busy!" "What have you been so busy with?" "Try to fit me in a few months down the line when you have time." "You’re crazy…always doing stuff." "Call me! Where are you?" I get these comments said to me a lot, and I can’t think of many things that are more personally irritating. … Continue reading The ‘Busy’ Trap (and my dirty little secret)

Single Lady Brags About Using Match.com to Get Guys to Buy Her Dinner

Jen Doll hits the nail on the head again. This really ticks me off…. I’m all for dating on 1,000 levels, but not to be a gold-digger. Get real, ladies. Sure, a free meal sometimes is nice (especially in good company), but your monthly budget shouldn’t be based on dates, and I would hope that… Continue reading Single Lady Brags About Using Match.com to Get Guys to Buy Her Dinner

Softball is a load of fun. So don’t ruin it, ump.

[editor’s note: This is going to turn into a rant, so apologies for deviating from my normal style.] I play in a wonderful softball league on a wonderful team. We have a good time and play to win (and also have fun). So do the other teams in the league (for the most part). Tonight’s… Continue reading Softball is a load of fun. So don’t ruin it, ump.