my masterpiece, v1.0

[Note: I wrote the below article for WECREATE NYC. They’re a super cool bunch of innovators interested in generating lasting economy and social change. Enjoy and share!]

By Jen Bokoff, a Brooklyn-based non-profit professional dedicated to facilitating discussions around philanthropy, sociology, and DIY ideas.

New York is inarguably a fast-paced city. From the way we walk to the embarassing dating websites for overworked professionals, a true “New Yorker” races around and multitasks like no suburbanite could ever imagine. We are a culture of conviction, of action, and of planning, where taking time to respond in a conversation could mean a missed opportunity to attend a meeting at the United Nations or  the next girls night out. We keep moving and processing information rapidly because, well, we have to survive in this city.

When we operate quickly – whether in the workplace or our personal lives – there’s a lot to be gained. We are often efficient and can pack more in; we don’t waste time on items of insignificance or exhaust ourselves through repeated action. We make decisions without agonizing for long, thus we see quicker results.

Well, let’s dig deeper: An email comes in from a coworker asking for approval to go ahead on executing a project involving multiple parties, substantial budgetary resources, and time. It’s been on the table for months, but now, here it is, in your inbox, asking, quite simply, yes or no. Do you reply then and there?

Our intuitive nature could lead us to automatically reply, without hesitation, “Yes.” Sure, brevity and speed have clear value; however, thoughtful consideration does too, and when we act too quickly, consequences are at stake. For example, it’s tougher to observe much deeper than surface level through quick processing, and in doing so, we lose an appreciation for detail and nuances. Quickly replying “yes” may just speed up an inevitable decision, but it could also shield us from the correct one. In doing so, we don’t open ourselves as much to be creative or experiment with new ideas because we act according to what we know since it’s innate. With a loss of creativity and openness to new ideas comes the stifling of innovation, and then, what are we rushing towards?

Let’s explore this question: Societal pressure tells us to do things quickly, but there is often counter-productive pressure of doing a job correctly, to do it well. In the above example, you, the decision-maker, need a clean slate on the facts. In a quick email scan, even when you think you “read” it all, you haven’t. It’s like those reading puzzles where the letters are all jumbled but you can read it anyway because you know what it SHOULD say. We read what we want to read, and then we respond how we want to respond; by nature, we’re in our own head.

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But you have to get out of it, however long it takes, because you WILL make mistakes. Giving a decision, like an email, that extra bit of time for thought or inquiry will strengthen your ability to do your job thoroughly in a way that garners respect and understanding.

Same rules should apply to a company, be it corporate or startup, where a few things remain the same: there exists a hierarchy of decision-makers, decisions to be made, emails to blast, and hopefully a communications point person. However, nowhere is it mandated that an employer must identify the ‘norms’ for communications and flow. Since those guidelines are not clearly set, everyone develops their own sense of pace: a secretary knows that speed with turning around typed materials and mailings is key; an account manager prioritizes calls with clients over conversations with coworkers; an executive assistant does what is necessary to best accommodate the wishes of that particular executive; a comptroller cares most about the bottom line and maintenance of records. In short, priorities are different, and people work in a way that best accommodates that priority as they see fit.

Here’s a solution: The communications person and/or the head honchos need to step up priorities and communication flows with their employees. Some key concerns: What are the actual turnaround times necessary, and what’s to be gained and lost with respect to thoroughness and detail in different scenarios? Who needs to be looped in or out of meetings? Should the standard time to reply to an email be 24 or 48 hours, or can it sit as long as it wants? Is it ok for messages to come from a phone while on the go, and if so, is a more casual tone allowed? Can conversations happen completely remotely, or should time be made in person or via Skype? How do all of these answers affect the company’s culture internally and brand externally?

YES, we want companies to operate quickly; but it’s wrong for productivity to suffer because our fast-paced world told us to hit send. Let’s change that.

This piece is part of a thought-curated series on innovation and collaboration in New York City written by a community of visionaries who are interested in generating lasting economy and social change.

I want to say things have changed, and I hope they have, but have they?

Also, College is a career? Really Parker Brothers?

[editor’s note: I most certainly do not have a problem with any of these professions. I am just commenting on the scope represented, the packaging, the total whiteness and girliness!, etc.]

via my buddy Garen on his Facebook status:

Typical Idealist.org Job Posting:

Title: Data Entry Minion

Responsibilities: Grueling busywork

Qualifications: PhD in Astrophysics or related field, plus 150 years related experience required.

Salary Range: <$20,000

This joke is only a little bit of an exaggeration. Disconnect between qualifications and salary is huge in the nonprofit world, especially with respect to the years of experience not moving you up on the financial ladder piece of it. Also, I think people so driven towards change by a powerful mission can forget that busywork is very much a part of it, especially as many nonprofits are understaffed.

Idealist.org is great, don’t get me wrong, but I think it can definitely be a bit disheartening and a reality-check for do-gooders everywhere. Change ain’t easy.

Being late happens. Here’s the plain, non-sugarcoated truth about what to do when you’re late or waiting for someone who’s late, and how to make up for it both in the moment and in the future.

For the purpose of conversation, I will refer to the below scenarios resulting from a person’s affinity towards tardiness and the given circumstance:

For definition and your thought processes:

Seldom late - Generally on time. Lateness isn’t a quality you associate with this person.

Perpetually late - Almost always is more than 15 minutes late.

Relatively uncontrollable - Examples include: last minute subway rerouting, coming from another appointment that ran late and was not possible to scoot out of, babysitter for a child you are responsible for shows up late, personal injury, extenuating circumstances

Controllable - Examples include: no planned professional time with anyone before, roommate in bathroom, slow but running subway / normal traffic, no good outfit, getting more work done, phone call (unless from other country), weather

ok, now that we have a framework….

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