Incredibly well-produced video by Alyssa and others at my high school. Very important, please watch and spread the word, just don’t say it.
I have a lot of respect for this, because it is one step towards reshaping what a model for a ‘standard’ store or line can look like or who s/he can be. Plus, he represents the brands well.
This Is Just Great of the Day: Appearing in the latest Target circular is 6-year-old Ryan: A happy, gregarious, photogenic rising star in the world of child modeling — who happens to have Down syndrome.
Ryan has also appeared in a recent Nordstrom catalog among other clothing ads.
On the Daddyblog of a father whose child has Down syndrome, Ryan’s mother writes:
The whole process of modeling is an extreme confidance booster for him. He received so much warmth and caring from the Nordstrom crew that he thought they were there just for him! We are honored that Ryan is making the Down syndrome community proud. He is a beautiful boy inside and out. He makes us better parents, and a better family.
Disability is a matter of perception.
Subway Seating Courtesy: a double-edged sword
With my now 2 week old bad back but generally ‘healthy’ appearance, I’ve been doing a lot of thinking about who’s entitled to sit on the subway. If you’re clearly pregnant, or on crutches, or blind, people will often be quite generous and offer a seat. Even if they don’t, there’s a very visual reason why you would be “entitled” to one if you wanted one.
The MTA actually mandates in a frequently played public service announcement that “If you see an elderly, pregnant, or disabled person near you, offer your seat. You’ll be standing up for what’s right. Courtesy is contagious and it begins with you.” Some jerks think that’s ridiculous, but I do believe that for the most part, an aware person is happy to comply.
But for less visible infirmities, such as an injured back, vertigo, nausea, a bum knee, or pounding headache, people can’t be expected to know that and offer you a seat. You will be bumped and forced to reach for a pole regardless of your problem. So, it’s my conclusion that if you do have an issue and need a seat, ASK. If you don’t, good luck. And, if someone is asking, they probably have a legitimate reason, so give it up unless you have one too.
Me? I haven’t asked. But that means I can’t really complain, either.
YES, there are people who lie. YES, there are times at the end of the day when the last thing you want is to stand. YES, people show (unfair) sexism and ageism when they do ask for seats. It’s not a perfect system. But it should be more ok for people to ask for a seat, and more normal to hear that and oblige. For random people’s thoughts on this issue, check out this Metafilter forum.