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(Reblogged from usagov)
Facebook friends should actually be called loose ties, because your loose ties are people who think more differently than your close ties and therefore challenge you to think and develop your ideas.
Brooke Gladstone

Parents and Technology: Episode 1

Got a good laugh with this from my buddy Sarah:

Whose mom then gave me a bigger laugh by changing her status:

Good times on Facebook.

Do people actually buy this stuff?

A random person friended me on facebook. This is all I know about him.

A random person friended me on facebook. This is all I know about him.

Good graphic courtesy of OhMyGov! about government employees’ compliance with the Hatch Act as far as social media (aka Facebook) is concerned. Helpful FAQs put out by the US Office of Special Counsel were boiled down into this chart. Sort of relieved I’ve done nothing wrong, even though I’m not totally sure what would happen if I did.

Farmville….why is it so popular?

I like games, but I just don’t get Farmville. Maybe it’s because I haven’t tried it, and maybe because the constant Facebook updates in my newsfeed are annoying as hell. I also am partial to board games with social interaction, not role play or simulation games like WoW or Second Life, which frankly are pathetic outlets for the anti-social zombies among us.

But “normal” people in my life play Farmville! When I ask why, they say “it’s so fun” or “so cute” and honestly, not much more than that. I think it probably has the same mind-numbing effect as a lot of trashy tv shows like Real Housewives or 16 and Pregnant (yea, that’s a show, with multiple seasons to boot). People don’t seem to care about strategy, or winning, or even generally succeeding. I can’t figure out what drives them to convince me to adopt a baby cow or eat some blueberries, and further, why think I’d care. And I certainly don’t want to help anyone plow their terrain.

Since Farmville started in June 2009, there are a LOT of people who use it and are fans of it via Facebook. The seamless integration with Facebook in fact has been easy advertising for the game and has undoubtably been the number one reason people decide to play. I just can’t figure out why they stay. PLEASE, someone, give me a good answer!!!

Who are you, “friends”?

Who are you, “friends”?

High School Facebook Friends and Erving Goffman

I got facebook friended today by someone else from my really large high school that I really don’t remember. We have 52 friends in common, of whom I really remember (beyond the name) about 2/3 and was for real friends (at the time) with about 3/13.

I accepted friendship.

I say that it’s because denying felt mean, but I think it’s really because I kind of like showing off my life right now because I think it’s pretty great. I also like looking at other people’s profiles and figuring out who they were and who they are and if they’re just doing the same thing I’m doing.

A sociologist I really like, Erving Goffman, wrote some stuff about this fancy thing called the dramaturgical effect, which I like applying to facebook. Basically, it’s this idea that an office worker might look busier than they really are when a supervisor walks by, or that a really shy and modest character might wear a promiscuous dress to the popular kids’ party to fit in. How you act on the “front stage” (what other people see) differs from what’s going on “back stage” (when nobody’s watching), but both construct your identity. More on dramaturgy here.

I always wonder if my front stage is what I think it is, but either way, I like people seeing it, I think.